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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-29 04:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #3160 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3160 ⌋

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Re: So:

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-08-30 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
I for one think it's well past time that people knew about this, but you were already well aware of all of my thoughts on this situation, Chard.

I guess I'll also take this situation to say I'm glad you clarified your position and your intentions because I'm generally not sure how many of your jabs are actually bitter or malicious and how many are just your personality these days.

On the one hand I don't think you should be forced to change your behaviour to bend over backward for someone who did some undoubtedly shitty things to you. On the other hand the stream isn't really public space so being respectful to some degree is kind of a requisite for being there.

I also would like to add that I generally like having you in stream because a lot of the time you bring the comedy genius but it has gotten awkward more than a few times. If you read this noodles, I hope you take this as my vote to bring Chard back in eventually. Maybe after a cooling off period?

I don't know. I don't have much more to say on this because I still don't really know both sides of the story. I sympathize, though. I maintain that you deserve something way healthier than what you had previously and I hope that lands in your lap soon.
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Re: So:

[personal profile] raspberryrain 2015-08-30 06:13 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with Herpy. I appreciate understanding just how bad it was, actually.

Re: So:

(Anonymous) 2015-08-30 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Why should people know the dirty details of their failed relationship?

Re: So:

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-08-30 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Because it's pertinent to some people, and the majority opinion seems to be that Chard is in the wrong for being bitter and angry about what happened. Knowing the above contextualizes her comments over the past year, and puts the people saying that in their place.

If you feel it doesn't concern you then go complain somewhere else.