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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-03 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #3165 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3165 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Miranda]


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03.
[Dramatical Murder]


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04.
[Mortal Kombat (1995)]


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05.
[Scarecrow and Mrs. King]


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[Berserk]


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[Ace Attorney/Metal Gear Solid]


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[Final Fantasy XII]













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Re: Grief

[personal profile] paranoid_anon 2015-09-04 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Yea, this. Plus apparently (never read the book, just an article on the book) the introduction to the Kubler-Ross book has her basically going "this is not a black-and-white order set in stone to do this thing in and don't take it as such."

Remembering the small things is what will get you through, even if it hurts right now to think on them. That's the way it was with my grandparents, who have been passed for several years.

Now, me, I currently have what's known as "complicated grief." As in, the family of the deceased has complicated things for me ever so needlessly. Mostly as a way to punish me for their version of my (alleged) wrongdoings. Which did throw me for a loop. But I am making my way back to baseline. Baseline being how good my life was, before the deceased dropped dead, deciding in the act of doing so, that they would reach up from the grave with a grasping undead hand like something out of The Swamp Thing and continue generating, in death, the insane path of utter destruction and sheer mayhem that they routinely left behind in their wake, in life.

TL;DR: My condolences, OP, and my sympathies.