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⌈ Secret Post #3168 ⌋

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[Criminal Minds]

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[Community]

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(Harry Potter, Yu-Gi-Oh)

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[JerryC]

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[J.K. Rowling/Harry Potter]

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[Kingdom Hearts: Dream Drop Distance]

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[Hatfields & McCoys]

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[Proof]

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[Brooklyn Nine Nine]

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[Scarlett Johansson]

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[No Escape]

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friend talking about killing herself, like really talking aout it, and i dont know where she lives and i cant say anything to mke her feel better and i recommended ideas that might help her get through the pain but its not that simple with a peorson whos that closer to the edge and theres nothing i can d cause i dont know where she lives only that she lives in edinburgh (im in the us) and she cant die she cant im scared and i love her shes my best friend right now and i cant lose her i cant and she she i we all love her but thats not enough and she said she wouldnt tonight but give no promises about tomorrow and she i mjust hoping she feels better by then because theres nthing i can do to help her and even if i could i dont know if it would help her, like even if she lived next door and i could personally cart her to a hospital, theyd lock her up and shed be away from her friends and her boyfriend and wouldnt that just make her even more miserable? i guess it doesnt matter cause i cant even do that much but oh god im terrified and she might just kill herself and theres nothing i can really do to stop it maybe she was even lying about not doing it tonight maybe she did it right after her last text and sertrhkskjd argk abketus erjgbukjtsrkyjg

my therapist isnt picking up nobodys around to talk to right now and i know youre not psychologists but you help sometimes with feelings and anonymous nd oh god just...give me reasons to think its gonna be okay, give me any helpul words you possibly have, id tell you to give them to her but im not ust gonna give outher number to strangers for obvious reasons, and im panicking so ahrd

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I'm so sorry, anon, that's awful. I really wish I could give you some advice but I'm not sure that I can. It sounds like an awful shitty situation and I'm sorry you have to go through this and it sounds like you've done everything you can and all you can do is hope that things improve even if only ever so slightly tomorrow. Which hopefully they will

Hugs if wanted

The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline for the U.S. is: 1 (800) 273-8255. Tell her to call it. They won't lock her away, but they'll try to help her get better.

Remember that whatever happens isn't your fault. From what you're telling us you've done everything you could.

Since she's in Edinburgh, maybe the Samaritans can help? They're trained in dealing with this exact situation:

08457 90 90 90

And I'm sorry both you and your friend are going through this :(

Do you have any other contact information for her? Phone number, work address/number, that sort of thing?

Unfortunately even if you were to contact authorities, you would have to have some kind of information that would allow them to ascertain where she lives.

At this point, realize there is nothing you can personally do to "make her feel better". That is out of your control completely. She may simply be in a medical state where she requires intervention for physiological processes that are also beyond her control. You have no way of ascertaining this simply by texting her.

If you have any way of finding out how to contact friends, family, coworkers, or someone in her geographical area that can address this situation, that is the only action you can take.

+1 this is solid advice, anon, listen to it.

What media did she tell you this on? If it was online most have ways to report a suicide to a person's nearest police station and help can be sent out. Normally in the help section of a site. Ie Facebook and tumblr both have this feature.

I'm sorry, Anon, that sounds like a really difficult situation. The Samaritans number, above, is a good place to start. I hope everything is ok.

That's terrible nonny... it seems you have her number... try calling the Samaritans as suggested (use Skype if you don't have much money/credit for international calls), and they will give you pointers. Or try calling police in Edinburgh directly... they can trace a number and pin it to a narrow location. Compile her threats into an email to send. Hoping you can help and/or she does not go through with it.

It's better to have treatment than be dead... I would absolutely make that choice for any of my friends over their wishes in this situation. I know from hard experience that medication is sometimes the only effective first aid. Good luck and hugs.

send your friend this post that you made, first of all

TL;DR

Good, you're not wanted.

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