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Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately
Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP
(Anonymous) 2015-09-07 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP
Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP
Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP
(Anonymous) 2015-09-08 12:08 am (UTC)(link)Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP
(Anonymous) 2015-09-08 01:00 am (UTC)(link)Thing is, I wouldn't post about issues we were currently having in the relationship here because I know he's here and doing so and only presenting my side would make me a passive aggressive asshole. You can frequent the same spaces but bringing up personal issues without their consent or knowledge, which you haven't talked to them about yet, where you know they might run into them and a thread full of people judging them and saying they're wrong, is dickish to the extreme. They'd have to be either a doormat to accept it without being annoyed or an idiot to not realize it's them.
So no, it's not hard to believe a couple might be here. It is hard to believe one of the two would be aware the other is here and post anon about a problem with all this identifying detail that they haven't talked to their SO about yet, unless they're an asshole.