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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-07 06:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #3169 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3169 ⌋

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fingalsanteater: (Default)

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately

[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2015-09-07 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
This is giving me flashbacks to the wank about cousins fucking and then the whole family started posting about it on FS (or it was something like that).

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP

(Anonymous) 2015-09-07 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
But this isn't even wank! It's a silly misunderstanding between a couple. Is it really so hard to believe that a girlfriend and boyfriend would hang out in the same online spaces?
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-09-07 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
it's not like it hasn't happened here already. I can think of at least two couples
fingalsanteater: (roman)

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP

[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2015-09-07 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay. The call-back posting just reminded me of that situation.

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP

(Anonymous) 2015-09-08 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
Sorry, that probably sounded much harsher than I intended. I was just frustrated and didn't mean to go off at you.

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately OP

(Anonymous) 2015-09-08 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
No, because I hang out here with mine too.

Thing is, I wouldn't post about issues we were currently having in the relationship here because I know he's here and doing so and only presenting my side would make me a passive aggressive asshole. You can frequent the same spaces but bringing up personal issues without their consent or knowledge, which you haven't talked to them about yet, where you know they might run into them and a thread full of people judging them and saying they're wrong, is dickish to the extreme. They'd have to be either a doormat to accept it without being annoyed or an idiot to not realize it's them.

So no, it's not hard to believe a couple might be here. It is hard to believe one of the two would be aware the other is here and post anon about a problem with all this identifying detail that they haven't talked to their SO about yet, unless they're an asshole.