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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-07 06:15 pm

[ SECRET POST #3169 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3169 ⌋

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caerbannog: (Default)

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-09-08 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
Every now and then I feel like a dick for just cutting off all contact with a friend.

Tbh I'm not sure they even noticed. Maybe they cut off contact with me and I haven't noticed because I cut off contact with them? mutual cutting off?

*alternates between relief and feeling like a dick*
dreemyweird: (Default)

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately

[personal profile] dreemyweird 2015-09-08 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
Why did you do that?
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-09-08 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
Because they were an unkind, manipulative, lying, verbally abusive, rumour spreading, gas lighting cunt and it took me 3 years of my housemates pointing out each time these happened to realise so and another year to slowly work up the courage/lose the patience to get the hell away from her. And various nice FS anon advice over those years too. And I don't want to "give her the chance" to argue against cutting her off.

Life has been much nicer since.

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately

(Anonymous) 2015-09-08 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
dreemyweird here. If anything, you should be proud of yourself!

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately

(Anonymous) 2015-09-08 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
I think your "a friend" in the first post is misleading, this doesn't sound like anyone was friends
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: Things that have made you feel like a dickhead lately

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-09-08 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
I think it was a weird thing where we were "best friends" and then when the behaviour slowly started to happen it was more like "best friends out of habit" and a side of "moved somewhere and don't know anyone but this person". They'd use the "your my best friend" phrase a lot, especially when I started backing off.

Honest thanks to my housemates at the time for opening my eyes (slowly, I was in major denial)