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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-11 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #3173 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3173 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Detroit Metal City]


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(Gravity Falls, Criminal Minds)


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08. [SPOILERS for X-Files (new series)]



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09. [SPOILERS for Sly Cooper 4: Thieves In Time]



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10. [SPOILERS for Mass Effect 2]




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11. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe]



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12. [WARNING for sexual assault]

[Chrissie Hynde of The Pretenders]


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13. [WARNING for rape and assault]

[Hockey RPF]











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kitelovesyou: butterfly scales (Default)

[personal profile] kitelovesyou 2015-09-12 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
She puts the blame for being raped on *herself*, not, you know, the actual rapist, who chose whether or not to rape her.

That's not a grandma thing to say that will shortly be obsolete and should be ignored and unchallenged, that's rape culture alive and kicking.

I can understand her POV though, as victims of abuse, it is often more comforting to believe that we had some measure of control over our abuse, it can feel better to blame yourself than another, because the loss of control and violation that actually happened is utterly traumatic.
ninety6tears: jim w/ red bground (thor)

[personal profile] ninety6tears 2015-09-12 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
It makes me feel that it's the blogs/journalists leaping to put her attitude in an echo chamber just because they know it'll get strong reactions that are really the ones I'm shaking my head at.