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fandomsecrets2015-09-15 06:58 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-09-15 06:58 pm
[ SECRET POST #3177 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3177 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Re: Would you/have you gotten an abortion?
Never had an abortion (never had reproductive sex to have an accidental pregnancy though).
Have had a miscarriage.
I would get an abortion if I needed to, absolutely. Including for severe disability. I had a (for now) healthy baby, tested foetus early for severe genetic defects, would have had an abortion if test had been positive. I had a 1 in 100 chance of this.
For me, it's the person carrying the embryo/foetus who gets to determine the meaning of what it/them is to them. No one else. I would never tell anyone else what they should do or not do.
Once the foetus is in the latter part of the pregnancy, and could live well independently of the womb-bearer, then I think abortion is morally problematic.
Where I live, abortion is legal on demand, up to 24 weeks if warranted.
I delayed having children for a decade because of disability, and only chose to breed when I felt I had just enough energy and resources to care for a child, including just enough extra if they became sick/disabled. This is why I was determined not to bear a child I was already sure would need my care for the rest of their life, not because they wouldn't be "perfect". I knew I could try again, as embryos/foetuses are potential lives, not lives to me, even the one I miscarried. Other people have different personal meanings, and that's okay.