[ SECRET POST #3182 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3182 ⌋

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Comments

[herpymcderp]

Just a thought, but have you tried non-physical means of having sex? If you like fanfiction, for instance, and you like masturbation why not try phone sex or roleplaying? It's still sexual interaction, it's still mutual means of attempting to turn each other on, but it cuts out the physical aspect.

Trust me, you are far from the only couple to have sexual incompatibilities but still want to be together. People have many different ways of making it work out so that everyone's needs are being met and no one is being forced to engage in something they don't like very much on a regular basis.

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[(Anonymous)]

I've tried both, actually, but unfortunately, I actually like that even less. As weird as it sounds, I'm actually pretty okay with the physical act of fucking, it's the being intimate with another person that turns me off. So, I can have sex okay as long as people don't expect me to share intimate fantasies, or keep up the enthusiasm for super long, or have orgasms. I know how strange it is. But that's where I'm at.

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[herpymcderp]

Not liking intimacy is something more along the lines of aromanticism, I thought?

Not that it matters much, but for the most part when someone says asexual I take it to mean that the part of sex they're uncomfortable with is the physical aspect.

Either one isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it kind of helps to differentiate.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Not necessarily

Sexual intimacy is definitely different from being intimate with a friend for example

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[(Anonymous)]

(OP again)

I get the confusion, hence why I was unsure if I should call myself asexual for so long. But yeah, it's the sexual intimacy I have trouble with, I like romantic non-sexual things and I like being close in other ways a lot.