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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-09-20 03:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #3182 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3182 ⌋

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Re: confession thread

[personal profile] dreemyweird 2015-09-20 10:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know that this necessarily applies to your case, but... it's easier to face some problems and failures while thinking that you're worthless and less than human. It frees you from any responsibility, basically. The failures you're so afraid of no longer happen because of something particular that you did, but they're an inevitability that will always be there, no matter how hard you try. It's depressing as fuck, but it is also liberating.

What one needs to be doing in a situation like this is trying to make themselves feel less responsible for everything. Learning that they can't control other people's actions, only their own. That other people have responsibilities, too, and if they do not fulfill them, it is their fault. That it's okay to fail and that most failures are not catastrophic.

IDK, I may be massively projecting here.