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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-03 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #3195 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3195 ⌋

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Re: I haz sads cause I wants a kitty but can't get one

(Anonymous) 2015-10-04 03:13 pm (UTC)(link)
"They state they live at home because the cost of living there is so high"

I already stated this.

" they appear to help take care of their parents and some other very personal and non-financial reasons."

The language used was vague. They said "My folks are getting on in years and I'm helpful to have around at least."

"My folks are getting on in years" = like, what, they're 60? 70? 80? In good health? Poor health? If you're an adult, everyone's folks is getting on in years. It'll happen whether you're there or not. Of course the thought of your parents dying at any age is freaking scary, especially if you aren't there when it happens. It should never be used as a reason to not be independent, to not live your own life.

"I'm helpful to have around at least" = this could mean anything. Maybe mom and dad see free labor. Maybe OP just takes initiative for enough tasks so that they have a "reason" to not move out. Honestly, I'm getting a kind of codependent vibe here.

"I think that's a bit different than "spoiled teen lifestyle.""

I never mentioned a spoiled teen lifestyle. A roof over your head is something you're entitled to until you're 18.