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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-04 04:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #3196 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3196 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Hannibal]


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03. [repeat, Black Mirror]


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[World of Warcraft, Mists of Pandaria]


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[Sailor Moon]


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[Silicon Valley]


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[Time Masters: Vanishing Point and Aladdin]


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[Floraverse]


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[HTGAWM]













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Re: tw: eating disorder

(Anonymous) 2015-10-04 10:06 pm (UTC)(link)
maybe she NEEDS some pushing

i mean, she's gotten to the point where she's stealing your food. that doesn't sound like she has stuff "under control", that sounds like the sort of behaviour an addict would do.

like any other mental illness, she needs help. give her an ultimatum.

Re: tw: eating disorder

(Anonymous) 2015-10-04 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
What would I say to her, though? I've got half the deposit sunk on this place and aside from this the living situation is ideal for me right now, there's no way I would move out. I don't even want to get the landlord involved because it would probably involve outing the ED.

Re: tw: eating disorder

(Anonymous) 2015-10-04 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt - What are the possible consequences of outing her ED, though? Are we talking getting fired, or embarrassment? Because yes, it's embarrassing as hell, but the stigma is also the reason why people don't get the help they need.

I imagine you'll be monitoring the situation closely from now on, anyway. Keep an eye on your friend for ED behaviors, keep an eye on your food. If your food starts disappearing again, it's time to have a slightly firmer (but kind!) sit down with your friend. You gave her a chance and you backed off to let her handle it on her own. If she can't handle it on her own, it's time to start exerting more pressure to see a doctor/therapist who specializes in eating disorders.