[ SECRET POST #3199 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3199 ⌋

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[Midnight Syndicate]


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(Jim Gaffigan)


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[X-Files]


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Comments

Re: __________ Rage

[(Anonymous)]

Unless your children don't live with you both, there's no way they're not exposed to the abuse, or at least the effect of the abuse on you. I have a friend who is also stuck in a bad relationship with a person who is borderline abusive, too. She thinks that her kids won't be affected by having an emotionally unavailable father who sees them as inconveniences and a financial drain. I'm sorry, but that's the fantasy parents in that situation tell themselves because it makes it easier to stay, but it's not true. You can only shield kids from so much, and you cannot parent enough to compensate for the lack of two loving parents when the dysfunctional parent is still in the household, being propped up by the functional adult. Kids notice that, and take it as their role model for what's normal.

Good luck on your escape plan.

Re: __________ Rage

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt Thankyou, but that doesn't apply here, at least not at the moment. I'm a bit concerned about the youngest, but they're too young to know yet. The oldest is covered in love and respect. A lot of it is that it has been transferred from me; I really am getting the brunt of it, and treated as the dysfunctional one because I have a chronic illness.