[ SECRET POST #3201 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3201 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Scream TV series]


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02.
[Erasure/Andy Bell]


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03.


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04.
[AmazingPhil and Danisnotonfire]


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05. [SPOILERS for Man from UNCLE]



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06. [WARNING for rape, war]



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07. [WARNING for rape]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #457.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: What's your biggest secret?

[(Anonymous)]

Being a virgin at 25 isn't a big deal, but I understand why you're worried. I was 24 the first time I went on a real, honest-to-god date, and I had pretty much exactly the same thought process you're writing about--is there something wrong with me, why can't I really be intimate with someone emotionally much less physically, how does everyone else just know how this shit works, forever alone and there's nothing I can do about it. And suddenly there was this guy who was, miracle of miracles, interested in me, and he was cute, and he was surprised I had never seen this movie, and did I want to go to his apartment and watch it? And after about half an hour it was pretty clear he was way less interested in the movie than he was in the contents of my underwear, and I thought, fuck it, I'm 24, I'm ready, let's do this.

I wasn't ready.

I guess what I'm saying is don't be so ashamed of yourself that you end up going zero to sixty smack into a brick fucking wall of regret and trauma like I did. I'm sorry if this isn't very coherent but this is literally the first time I've ever told anybody how I actually feel about this and it's putting me back in a not great place mentally, but this is important enough that I wanted to tell you anyway. Please take care of yourself, OP. And for the love of christ, don't be afraid to tell your significant other that you want to take it slow and idek just make out a little, even if you don't want to admit to it being your first time.

Re: What's your biggest secret?

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, man, that reminds me of something I did at 24.

Great way to screw up a relationship: Realize as you are in bed with someone that you'd rather stay a virgin than have sex with them.

And yet still want to be with them!

(Het relationship, with me really not wanting to have kids with this person and to be bound to them by that.)

Re: What's your biggest secret?

[(Anonymous)]

Hey thanks for being willing to share & I'm sorry you had that experience & I hope that you feel better!!!