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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-13 07:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3205 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3205 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Jurassic World]


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[Anthony Bourdain]


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[Puzzle&Dragons (mobile app game)]


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[Fear the Walking Dead, Alicia and Nick]


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[Hannah Pilkes, viner]


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[Hetalia, Xenosaga]


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[Undertale]


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[School-Live!]


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[Over the Garden Wall]









Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 042 secrets from Secret Submission Post #458.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: A Sincere Question About Being Attracted To Men

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
I think there's a logical explanation, and it has nothing to do with what's concerned; you're going about it the opposite way

A) nothing is perfect, including broad groups of people

B) people are more likely to complain and complain validly about things that are of interest to them; if you're an artist, you're more likely to complain about valid artistic issues, because they're relevant to you. Someone who has zero interest in art is less likely to complain about those things

Straight men complain more about women than gay men because they're attracted to women, straight women complain about men because they're attracted to men, I would think gay men and lesbians have comparatively less occasion to complain about the opposite gender since they aren't involved in relationships with them

So your question shouldn't be "Why do you date what you complain about" but rather "Why do you complain about what you date" and there are obvious reasons for that, because you're dating them and their flaws matter more to you than the flaws of the people who are of less interest to you