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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-13 07:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3205 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3205 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Jurassic World]


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[Anthony Bourdain]


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[Puzzle&Dragons (mobile app game)]


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[Fear the Walking Dead, Alicia and Nick]


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[Hannah Pilkes, viner]


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[Hetalia, Xenosaga]


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[Undertale]


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[School-Live!]


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[Over the Garden Wall]









Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 02:34 am (UTC)(link)
lmao you crazy troll, so he could understand what it's like to be a woman. OP never said because she missed boobs and vaginas. the whole post was about her boyfriend not understanding women.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, you're seriously a fucking dumbass who has no reading comprehension. If OP was heterosexual and simply meant that she wanted her bf to understand what it was like to be a woman, she would have phrased it differently. She could have said "I wish my boyfriend understood what it was like to be a woman" or "I wish my boyfriend temporarily had to see what it was like to be a woman." Instead, she said, "I wish my boyfriend was a woman," which implies that she would continue dating her boyfriend if he was a woman.

Also, nice homophobia what with the "missing boobs and vaginas" shit. I literally never brought that up, lmao.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
da

"I wish my boyfriend was a woman," which implies that she would continue dating her boyfriend if he was a woman.

Nah, colloquially no. You're second guessing to an unsupportable degree.

Also, you meant transphobia.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
1) Colloquially or not, it would be a weird way to phrase it if OP was heterosexual. I don't think my assumption is that outlandish.

2) And, uh, no, don't tell me what I meant. I meant homophobia. I literally just said that OP's statement implies to me that she would be fine being with her boyfriend if he was a woman, and the other anon completely sexualized it. If anything, it's also biphobia as well.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 07:13 am (UTC)(link)
1) I think not, you do. Oh well.

2) You're right about sexualizing it, my apologies. It's also transphobic however.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
lol

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 06:59 am (UTC)(link)
If OP was heterosexual and simply meant that she wanted her bf to understand what it was like to be a woman, she would have phrased it differently.

Are you a guy? Because generally, most women don't feel the need to make absolutely certain nobody thinks they might like women. Many straight women can very comfortably say "I wish my boyfriend was a woman" without feeling like they have to specify that their "not gay or anything!"

she said, "I wish my boyfriend was a woman," which implies that she would continue dating her boyfriend if he was a woman.

Nah, if OP's initial statement implies anything, it implies that she's straight, because if she were bi she wouldn't need to her BF were a woman - she could just date a woman. Not that I am by any means certain OP is straight - that's just what I got from her comment.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 07:01 am (UTC)(link)
she wouldn't need to wish her BF were a woman

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 07:24 am (UTC)(link)
No, I'm a woman.

Many straight women can very comfortably say "I wish my boyfriend was a woman" without feeling like they have to specify that their "not gay or anything!"

I'm sorry, but what world do you live in? And do you have any idea how bizarre that sounds? I've never met a straight woman who said they wished their boyfriend was a woman. That just not make any sense. She might say that she wished her boyfriend understood women more or that he knew what it was like, but why would a HETEROSEXUAL women SPECIFICALLY say she wished her boyfriend was a woman? That's completely nonsensical.

Nah, if OP's initial statement implies anything, it implies that she's straight, because if she were bi she wouldn't need to her BF were a woman - she could just date a woman.

If anything, what you're saying makes less sense. You're saying that the OP has no strong feelings for her BF and could just easily leave him? Uh, plenty of bi women fall in love with men and aren't too happy with some of their insensitive/sexist attitudes but stay with them anyway. In fact, I've literally heard bi women say exactly what the OP said.

I could go on about this, but I'm tired of this argument so peace out.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 07:33 am (UTC)(link)
This kind of kvetching?

http://www.nation.co.ke/lifestyle/Living/Sometimes-I-wish-my-husband-were-a-woman/-/1218/2714016/-/xlsvhk/-/index.html

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 08:06 am (UTC)(link)
DA
"SOMETIMES" being the keyword there.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 08:15 am (UTC)(link)
Oh noes as opposed to the OP who definitely wants her bf to have a magical sex change and/or magical different past!

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 08:59 am (UTC)(link)
I can't decide if you really are this stupid or if you're trying to troll. I hope for you that it's the latter.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 09:07 am (UTC)(link)
"Sometimes" is a pretty imaginary distinction you are reaching for.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 09:33 am (UTC)(link)
Not really. It's exactly the distinction that takes it from "should turn into a woman" to "should sometimes experience what it's like to be a woman". But it's okay if you don't get that words mean things.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

I've never met a straight woman who said they wished their boyfriend was a woman.

I have, at various points in the passed, wished just about every guy I've ever dates was a woman.

There. Now your tiny mind can believe in it, since you have personally experienced it to exist! This much be a big day for you!

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
"AT VARIOUS POINTS" being the keywords there.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, at various points I have wished my bf were a woman. That is exactly what I said. I feel like you don't really have a point here, but you can keep trying if you really want.

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
agreed

Re: Gender Stuff

(Anonymous) 2015-10-14 02:47 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt

ahh, no helping. and what up with that attitude?