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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-17 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3209 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3209 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(frozen comment) Rant thrread.

(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't care if you want to post in here, this is for me.

So to the woman in the super ironic "Cosplay is not consent" T-shirt who Grabbed. My. Cunt. for her picture today: You can fuck right off with that shit. You and the women like you are by far the worst thing I have to deal with in cons. I've been doing slutty cosplay for years, and I would much rather have guys who take my photo without asking, or guys doing the creepy floating arm, or any of the socially awkward shit guys do at conventions, I would rather have that every day of my life if it meant I would never have to pose for a photo with some fucking entitled bitch (yes, I know bad word I'm sorry, but ass-hole is to mild) thinking she can grab my tits, my ass, and apparently now my cunt is fair game. I hope my eternal bitch-face in that photo haunts you. I hope you realise that being a woman gives you no entitlements to my body. I hope you realise the irony of your fucking T-shirt. But you won't. Because consent is something guys have to worry about, isn't it? Not you. No never fucking you. You're a woman, so of course you just feel free to do what you want to other women.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:03 pm (UTC)(link)
You are making this up, right? You are one of those MRAs who like to come on the web and claim to be a woman who had feminist women act terrible, aren't you?
Pics or it didn't happen, MRA dude.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh fuck off jackass.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
"Pics or it didn't happen"? Really? Are you sure you're not an MRA pretending to be a radfem?

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
My thoughts exactly.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
got to be. no-one was harmed by the stuff in this story, it's just some dude trying to drum up dramas.

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[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-10-17 09:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Not anon you are referring to, but as someone who went to several parties that were like 90% women (I went to a women's college), women can be just as entitled as men. I've had my breasts and butt grabbed. I had one girl who would not stop touching me even after being asked several times (even when I sat as far away from her as possible she would stretch her leg out to rub her foot up and down my leg).

Thankfully no one ever grabbed my vagina outright.

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[personal profile] morieris 2015-10-17 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, I see someone missed the point of that t-shirt. That's messed up, I'm sorry that happened to you.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you. I'm kinda fucked off by these replys I'm getting. This was a mistake, eh?

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
So she's a hypocrite who doesn't practice what she preaches. That still doesn't make it okay for guys to take creepshots.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Exactly. It's not women making conventions unsafe for women, it's guys.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
STTH.docx

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I bet she wears that shirt so people think she's safe. That's super fucked up.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
In what way was she unsafe?

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
C*nt and B*tch, Nice. Classy. I totally will take your opinions on feminism and sexism as valid.

You're so full up of internalized misogyny that I don't think there's anything else inside you.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't know what you're spouting. There's nothing considered misogynist, even in feminism, about using "cunt" to refer to the body part. Especially your own. Lots of women do it as a feminist statement.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
well to be honest, the cosplay is not consent is about protecting womens bodies from men. do women need to be protected from other women? maybe sometimes yes, it's much rarer but it does happen. but that's a different movement that we might need. you cant fight every enemy at the same time and right now women at cons are at a far greater risk from those "socially awkward shit guys" you're defending than the one or two women with boundary issues.

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(frozen comment) Guys, this anon is right!

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[personal profile] dreemyweird 2015-10-17 09:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Is there any way you could report her for harrassment? Do you e.g. know her name? Because that's incredibly gross.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry about all the gross hypocrites in this thread OP.

You're right that is fucked up

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
>Op makes thread attacking women
>People defend her

Where the hell am I? What's wrong with you people, this is a fucking troll! C'mon, y'all are smarter than this.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry OP that sounds awful

Also the people in this thread are sad. "you're a woman groped by another woman LOL liar you're an MRA" Nice job helping other women there. Looks like some of these people only care when a woman is wronged by a man.

Isn't that supposed to be that "rape culture" thing? Doubting a woman who says she got assaulted?

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[personal profile] philstar22 2015-10-17 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
We bought some hard cider last week. Half were mine, half my dad's. I had one bottle left of my part, but I haven't been able to drink on account of taking vicodin. My dad drank the last bottle. He also ate my oreos.

I know those can all be replaced, but it is the principal. And plus, they are away for the weekend and I have no oreos to enjoy.

And holy cow, that is horrible. I'm so sorry OP.
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[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-10-17 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel that OP. Aside from just getting bored of the scene, that was one of the reasons I quit that hobby.

It sucks and I wish security took that shit more seriously... although, who knows, maybe they do these days.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)
fact is cons are not about safety. the con rules are not about making you safe. con security is not about making people any safer because rapists don't do things in front of the security.

everything we have in place at conventions is so we /feel/ safe, and the fact is men just make people feel less safe than women. don't know if it's justified, but it's the way it is.

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(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:42 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry this happened to you, but women who cross lines just aren't a priority right now. Men are a far far bigger danger to women, and no-one has the resources to spend combating something that isn't a massive social problem. When men are under control we'll be able to focus on these types of attitudes, but for now we just have to take some personal responsibility.

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