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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-17 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #3209 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3209 ⌋

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: complaints/whining thread

(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Surprise surprise, but if you've had a bad experience, especially recent, you're pretty likely to exaggerate and be bitter towards people who have it better.

Don't tell me you've never said dumb things or overgeneralized when you've vented before.

Best thing to do when someone vents is to lend an ear, not tell them it's their fault.

Re: complaints/whining thread

(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Not OP That's the one thing I don't like about F!S. People ask questions on question threads, someone inevitably calls them a moron. People vent on vent threads, someone inevitably tells them they deserve it.

Just... don't read threads if they piss you off that much.

Re: complaints/whining thread

(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
SA

This is really confrontational and I apologize. I'm frustrated how quickly f!s can dogpile someone if they don't phrase something exactly right and they're just here to vent, not you in particular.

Re: complaints/whining thread

(Anonymous) 2015-10-17 09:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I get annoyed too. Especially when you reword and they just ignore you, or continue to dogpile because they don't read the clarification. Sigh.

Though I don't think it's just F!S. Once you've said the "wrong" thing on the internet, everyone refuses to listen.