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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-10-19 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3211 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3211 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Jim Carrey]


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[Disney's Descendants]


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(City of Angels)


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[Die Hard/Die Hard 4]


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[Pacific Rim]


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[Sandi Toksvig, Stephen Fry, QI]


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[Undertale]


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(Anonymous) 2015-10-20 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah yes, the overweight tumblr HAES queens, the utter picture of self-esteem. Not.

And lmao @ losing weight to feel prettier = self shame.

(spoiler alert: it's called goal setting)

(Anonymous) 2015-10-20 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

This secret oozes shame, though.

And unlike the OP, the "queens" of tumblr have the guts to dye their hair a colour that draws attention and says "fuck it I'm pretty".

(Anonymous) 2015-10-20 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know your experience with 'tumblr queens', but I have yet to meet one which doesn't use the 'fuck it I'm pretty' as a mask for glorious insecurities - a mask that falls apart into angry screeching against discrimination and what not the moment it is challenged (by, for example, the fact that somebody is not attracted to them). Of course, over generalization and so on, but using this particular subculture as a standard of self-esteem? Please no.

I don't think that OP doesn't have guts to dye hair. It seems to me she really doesn't want to become one kind of a person and wants instead to project a different image. If anything, it reeks more of second hand embarrassment than self shame.

But of course, only OP knows.