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fandomsecrets2015-11-03 05:42 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-11-03 05:42 pm
[ SECRET POST #3226 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3226 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Animal Crossing]
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[Steven Universe]
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[Excess Baggage]
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05.
[Sue Perkins]
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[Mobile Suit Gundam: Iron-Blooded Orphans]
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[Vin Diesel]
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[Hemlock Grove]
Notes:
Sorry about early, have stuff to do!
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 026 secrets from Secret Submission Post #461.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Trigger warning - Rape
There is one exepction to this rule: If she's got this hangup because of something that's happened to her in the past (such as rape), then she clearyl needs therapy, if she wants sex but experiences those feelings. You haven't mentioned anything like that, so either she hasn't told you or that's not it. If it is something like that, see a therapist as a couple. Not addressing the issue means it will fester.
But more likely, it's more personal from what you've told us so far. There may not be anything actually wrong with you, or her. I don't know. But obviously SOMETHING IS SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH THE RELATIONSHIP! If an act that should be one of intimacy and love with you illicits those feelings in her, that means something. Unless it's that she's been asexual all along, and I doubt it, that means there's something about you that's making her say internally "This is not the right one! This is not right!" And that's probably more then you having an ugly dick or something. There is something not right between you. And it's so deep your both better going off and finding people with whom there are no such feelings.
If it's that second one, there's no saving this. You might delay it for a while, but it will end. Probably harder then it needed to. Leave her. The fact she told you this means it's probably over.