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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-04 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #3227 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3227 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Mary McDonnell, Battlestar Galactica, Major Crimes]


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[Deadly Premonition]


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[The Walking Dead, Glenn Rhee]


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[Bill Skarsgård]


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08. http://i.imgur.com/LAq54d4.jpg
[link for random penis]









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insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Shit Stream: Quality Control?

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2015-11-05 03:01 am (UTC)(link)
What about when they have a kid? In the case I know about first hand a six month old. With a mother who couldn't work. I'm not going to lie, I feel a contempt for that person.
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: Shit Stream: Quality Control?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-11-05 08:08 am (UTC)(link)
See, the problem there to me is that the birth of a child is a massive uprooting of your life and can mess up your mental health so much (especially for moms, as pre-existing depression is an almost sure indicator of one bitch of post-partum depression. But I understand from you post this was the dad?)

The sad truth is that some people shouldn't have kids. The problem is it's not PC to say it, but for me personally my mental health is a large part in my decision not to reproduce (especially as the one time I did believe I was pregnant I became erratic to the brink of violent). It would be horrible to enforce it, but a little self-knowledge goes a long way.

Ultimately, however, I believe that the person who did that most likely believed that his family would be better off, no matter how irrational it sounds. Because that's what depression does to your brain. It warps your thoughts and our perceptions of reality.

To me the real tragedy is that apparently no-one saw this coming.