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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-05 07:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #3228 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3228 ⌋

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Re: So my dad's on the way out

(Anonymous) 2015-11-07 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
I interpreted this as them saying that shortly after someone close to them died, a celebrity died and that's what it took to trigger an emotional reaction.

When my grandfather died, my dad (who'd lived with him and took care for him for a decade) didn't really react much. But then a month or so later one of our cats got hit by a car and crawled into a crevice behind out fireplace to die, and my dad lost his shit. It wasn't really about the cat. Or, well, maybe a little bit of it was, but mostly it was about his dad. That's the way some people are with grief. I'm the same way. My psyche won't let me grieve directly; it has to find a sneaky circuitous route for my grief to wallop me from.