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Re: The word "gypsy"
(Anonymous) 2015-11-16 12:20 am (UTC)(link)But in both cases I think it's also best for either side to actually stop using a word around someone if they still say it offends them. I don't say "gypsy" anymore unless I'm referring to something like the song you mentioned, and if I were talking about the song to a European I'd probably throw in a quick mention that I know it's not a good word but most people here honestly have no way to find out what it means in Europe. In turn I expect Europeans not to show off their cosplay photos where they paint themselves brown to be Korra or something and act like it's fine because nobody cares about blackface in their country. People's right to not be hurt is more important than other people's right to say "but it's okay if I say/do it because it's not offensive in my culture."
Re: The word "gypsy"
(Anonymous) 2015-11-16 01:11 am (UTC)(link)Re: The word "gypsy"
(Anonymous) 2015-11-16 01:17 am (UTC)(link)Although I'm sure there are more brown Europeans who are offended by it than are willing to say so. There was an enlightening radio segment about this a few years ago, about a country (not European) I'd seen people from on the internet claim had never had a heavy history of racism and so their racial minorities weren't bothered by casually racist things. Turns out that's not as true as they think.
Re: The word "gypsy"
(Anonymous) 2015-11-16 01:21 am (UTC)(link)Re: The word "gypsy"
(Anonymous) 2015-11-16 01:23 am (UTC)(link)Re: The word "gypsy"
(Anonymous) 2015-11-16 01:58 am (UTC)(link)Re: The word "gypsy"
(Anonymous) 2015-11-16 02:14 am (UTC)(link)Re: The word "gypsy"
(Anonymous) 2015-11-16 02:36 am (UTC)(link)And even "just" darkening your skin still offends people outside of the US. It's not just African Americans that see it and think you're a racist douchebag.
Re: The word "gypsy"
(Anonymous) 2015-11-16 01:57 am (UTC)(link)