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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-20 06:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #3243 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3243 ⌋

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Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

(Anonymous) 2015-11-21 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
* drugs - I'm including pot. I'm all for legalization, but I don't want to date someone who uses them.

* too attached to mother/mama's boy - I don't mean merely having a good relationship with your mother, but being unhealthily attached


*Nods* Seconding these as well. Especially the second one. Not keen on getting into potential Norman Bates territory, thanks.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

(Anonymous) 2015-11-21 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
Even if there's no dead skeleton in a room somewhere, having a domineering mother in law is a giant pain in the ass.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

(Anonymous) 2015-11-21 01:44 am (UTC)(link)
I don't doubt it. If and when I ever get married, I want to make sure that our families get on as well as they possibly can. I know there's always going to be those couple weird/obnoxious relatives here and there, every family's got them somewhere. But at the very least, I'd want to get on well with my husband's parents/siblings, and I'd want him to get on well with mine.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

(Anonymous) 2015-11-21 04:39 am (UTC)(link)
I think what's key is that your partner have your back. I don't want to be married to someone who thinks it's fine for his mother to talk shit about me, or for his siblings to be assholes to me. I'd never put up with that from my family, so I'd expect the same from my partner.

Re: Relationship Dealbreakers

(Anonymous) 2015-11-21 07:24 am (UTC)(link)
*Nods* Exactly. Well said.