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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-23 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3246 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3246 ⌋

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Re: "I hate kids!"

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-11-24 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Yea, I feel like that's true too. Not saying that no one hates children, that's just unrealistic, but the vast majority probably find saying "I hate kids" easier than explaining their reasons for not wanting children. (Especially when, like you said, folks will often follow up with "You'll change your mind" (this one I've heard quite a few times myself), etc.)

I've never said, "I hate kids" because I think it sounds incredibly harsh and it's inaccurate, but I can kind of understand how it might be easier to say that then explain their feelings about children.

As for kids themselves, admittedly I'm not around them often, but I haven't enjoyed being around them for the most part. Kids make me feel more nervous and awkward then normal, which is saying something. The thought of having one is a major DNW; I'm not into that level of responsibility, nor do I actually want one around me that often. I don't hate them though, I just...don't want them.