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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-23 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3246 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3246 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-11-24 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Since you said it's an honestly curious question:

Absolutely fucking not. I'm not going to judge a woman who used protection and it fails. I'm also not going to judge a stupid mistake or two. But I draw the line at willful, repeated offenses. Again, I'm not going to lobby to take the right for birth control away from a woman like that, but I'm still going to judge them. Any woman who casually mentions that this is her 9th abortion in 4 years is going to get a HUGE side-eye from me. (And again, even that could have exceptions, I will never judge a woman in an abusive relationship who feels that these are her only way out, etc. I am talking very specifically about women who are in control of themselves and their partners and have access to birth control but repeatedly do not use it.) I can still think someone is making a horrible choice as a human being without wanting to punish every single woman for that individual abusing the system and their own bodies because they can't be assed to take it upon themselves to use birth control, or have their partners use birth control.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-24 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for your reply. I completely agree with you here.