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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-29 03:32 pm

[ SECRET POST #3252 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3252 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-11-30 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
Look, he was around her as she was growing up and he prepared her for being with him later. It's grooming, plain and simple.

Now that's a kink for some people, so whatever. But you can't pretend it's okay in real life.
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[personal profile] greenvelvetcake 2015-11-30 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah that isn't at all what happened in the show. He didn't groom her to date him later on. I'm not saying the adult relationship didn't have its creepy factor, which they addressed in the show, but grooming wasn't part of it.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-30 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
It was addressed incorrectly, without going into the full inappropriateness. But what's shown is clear, despite what they tell us about the relationship. He groomed her, plain and simple.
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[personal profile] greenvelvetcake 2015-11-30 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
Can you give us some examples? I just had those episodes on as background noise a few weeks ago and never saw any instances of it.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-30 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
You... don't really have a solid grasp on what "grooming" is.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-30 07:42 am (UTC)(link)
Amen.

(Anonymous) 2015-11-30 06:14 am (UTC)(link)
Where the fuck in the show does indicates that he was 'preparing/grooming' her to be with him later?

Was it creepy? Yes. Was it anything close to 'grooming' no, so fuck off!