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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-11-30 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3253 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3253 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Fallout]


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[Colonel Fitzwilliam, Pride and Prejudice 1995 miniseries]


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[Master and Commander/Aubrey/Maturin series]


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[Undertale]


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[Justified]


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[Fury, Don/Boyd]


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(The Pioneer Woman/Ree Drummond)


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[Interworld]











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Re: Rant thread

(Anonymous) 2015-12-01 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
I found out my ex was indeed lying to me about almost everything he said about his 'group of male friends' who turned out to actually be just one female friend. He was basically seeing her on the side, and everything he had said to reassure me she was 'just a friend' when I found out she wasn't a 'group of guys' was a lie. I googled her name and looked at her public facebook, and there it was. I told him this and he flipped out and said I was wrong. I then told him I'd found her facebook and he told me I was a stalker and had invaded his privacy, and that -I- was wrong. He ended things with me there.

I don't see how looking at someone's public page was stalking, or how I was in the wrong when he was cheating/lying to me for months. I've never actually invaded his privacy, no read emails, or messages, or listened in on phonecalls. We had our separate lives, and I guess he's just complaining about privacy because he got caught red handed.

Re: Rant thread

(Anonymous) 2015-12-01 06:34 am (UTC)(link)
It would only be stalking if you went out of your way to view her FB content if she set it to friends only. Or obsessively checked up on it periodically. Checking her public page once to see if he was lying is just that: to see if he was lying to you. He's being the shitty one here. Sorry you're going through this anon.

Re: Rant thread

(Anonymous) 2015-12-01 11:17 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you~
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Re: Rant thread

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-12-01 07:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeahhh, no, you are not in the wrong. He is very much in the wrong. I'm sorry that happened and I'm sorry he decided to try to deflect the blame when he got caught.

It sucks that that happened but I'm happy it happened now and not way in the future. You deserve better.