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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-04 06:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #3257 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3257 ⌋

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03. [SPOILERS for Downton Abbey Season 6]



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04. [SPOILERS for Mockingjay Part 2]



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05. [SPOILERS for Undertale]



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06. [WARNING for rape]



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08. [WARNING for child abuse]

[King Lear]


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09. [WARNING for abuse]

[Tales From the Borderlands]


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10. [WARNING for abuse, PTSD]

[Jessica Jones]









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Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
Inspired by #7, what are some problematic kinks you have?

Re: Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
girl x 'savage' types

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
Yes.
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Re: Problematic kinks

[personal profile] iceyred 2015-12-05 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yes. Yes.

Re: Problematic kinks

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-12-05 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
Are there really any kinks out there that someone doesn't feel are "problematic" these days?

When the hell did fandom get so anti-kink, anyway? Half the kinks I like are stuff I only ever want to see in fanfic or 2D art. It's like everyone out there suddenly failed to grasp this concept.

/rant

Re: Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, basically everything is problematic. Except lesbians. Unless men are turned on by lesbians. That's bad.

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Noncon, dubcon, torture, and manipulation. I read a lot of "break the sweet, cute guy" fics.

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:35 am (UTC)(link)
Rape.

Re: Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
+1

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
Infidelity.

Re: Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
My kink is imagining a person with a rape kink getting turned on as they're being raped and blaming themselves for it because of it. Specially if the rapists notices they're turned on and victim blames them and shames them for it.

I really, really wish I was trolling.

Re: Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
Corrective rape.

Re: Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 11:32 am (UTC)(link)
Oh yes. I had this fantasy where the brother of my Fandom crush raped me because I'd been sleeping with his sister. All the time going on about how the "real thing" must be so much better than what girls do with each other

Re: Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Rape, Racism, Physical abuse, Reproductive Abuse, Drugging and Mind control.

Anyone got any good recs?

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
Post rape trauma being exploited by rapists. Jessica Jones has me in a fit of masturbation.

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
Age gaps. Bonus points for hundreds-of-years-old immortal/teenager or twentysomething.

(And no, I'm not a Twilight fan. I find Edward/Bella off-putting for reasons that have nothing to do with their ages.)

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kallanda_lee: (Default)

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2015-12-05 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
Noncon. Disability kink.
ibbity: (Default)

Re: Problematic kinks

[personal profile] ibbity 2015-12-05 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Dubcon, specifically dubcon with dominant, experienced women and submissive, inexperienced men. I have all kinds of issues with any other type of dubcon but oh man does that particular kind of dubcon hit my buttons.
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Re: Problematic kinks

[personal profile] philstar22 2015-12-05 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
I really enjoy reading the creepiest, most awful rape and/or torture fics. Not as a sexual kink, but definitely hits buttons for me.

I like extreme power dynamics where they underlay even sex scenes that are consensual.

Re: Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
slave/master, underage rape, underage coercive rape, and many more flavors of dub and non con.
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Hannibal spoilers

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-12-05 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
Geez, I don't even know how to describe this one...

I guess stylized violence? It isn't that I find violence or murder in itself to be hot, but there's something in certain action sequences that really does it for me. (The fight scenes in The Winter Soldier, Harry Hart in Kingsman, Raiden in Metal Gear Rising, and hell, even some of Will's fantasies about killing Hannibal. The one where he slits Hannibal's throat at Mason's makes me feel uncomfortable on several levels. On the flip-side, Hannibal gutting Will does nothing for me; it's incredibly sad and shocking and emotional, but I don't find it 'hot'.)

Re: Problematic kinks

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 03:16 am (UTC)(link)
Do gangbangs count as a problematic kinks? Do fistings?

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
Identity porn.
I used to think it was pretty tame, but according to tumblr it's just like non-con.

I didn't know that was a thing

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Less "kinks" than "tropes" I guess, but...

(Anonymous) 2015-12-05 04:04 am (UTC)(link)
This isn't as overtly problematic as most (and it's also super common and super popular anyway), but I'm into fics where my OTP are unhealthily dependent on each other for their emotional/psychological stability.

"He doesn't love me; I'm unworthy of love; I'm going to not take care of myself and go into a self-destructive spiral, while pretending I'm actually fine."

"If he leaves I will completely fall apart; I will do anything, anything if I can keep him."

"He's dead and all I want is to follow him." (but only if the dead character comes back)

OTOH, I only go for this if it's requited. If it's just one deeply insecure character with no sense of self worth, being overlooked and walked over by another character, I'm backbuttoning so hard.
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Re: Problematic kinks

[identity profile] mimi-sardinia.livejournal.com 2015-12-05 04:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I do have some age-difference OTPs of the immortal race sort (LotR, BTW), but all of them tend to be adults.

I have frequently shipped incest, but I prefer it to be consensual.