[ SECRET POST #3263 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3263 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Would you rather...

[dreemyweird]

Well, if you had an asexual partner, it stands to reason that they wouldn't find you sexually attractive in the first place. So there would be no problem with the second option.

Re: Would you rather...

[(Anonymous)]

This is very difficult to explain to an ace person, but I personally find the thought of having sex with someone who doesn't find me sexually attractive repulsive - like the person is using my body to masturbate themselves or like they don't acknowledge my personhood.

Re: Would you rather...

[dreemyweird]

Okay, if this is a normal sentiment in sexual people, then I understand better why someone'd choose the second option! This sure sounds unpleasant.

Re: Would you rather...

[(Anonymous)]

I'm bi and don't have get that sentiment, so. I mean, the op said they'd enjoy the sex, and I assume I'm the love of their life, too? So, that's okay with me.

I don't get the second one at all. It just sounds deeply unhappy.

Re: Would you rather...

[herpymcderp]

I don't think that's a normal sentiment in sexual people. Personally I'd be more worried that they weren't actually enjoying themselves and that I was the one using the asexual person to masturbate.

It'd take a lot of convincing for me to actually want to have sex in that kind of relationship... hence why I'd probably just resort to having a sexless relationship, which would be totally fine with me. :)

Re: Would you rather...

[(Anonymous)]

DA

When I found out my partner wasn't sexually attracted to me it really fucked me up and changed how I viewed everything about our relationship. On the one hand I felt like I had been taking advantage of them the whole time, because they weren't attracted to me the same way I was attracted to them. I felt like some kind of horrible freak.

And on the other hand I felt like they had taken advantage of me. I wouldn't have ever had sex with them if I knew they didn't find me attractive. I'm not interested in being someone's fleshlight.

Re: Would you rather...

[diet_poison]

Eesh. That sounds kind of awful. :|