[ SECRET POST #3266 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #3266 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________



12.













Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 064 secrets from Secret Submission Post #467.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

Wedding planning is certainly not the rainbow colored dreamworld I was led to believe it would be!

I have doubts but don't know whether it's the depression twisting my mind.

Re: Rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

Planning any huge event never is, sadly.

It might be the depression, but... reading your description of your fiance above and the fact that you can't even talk to him about this suggests that it's not JUST depression talking here. I can't imagine marrying a guy I couldn't talk to about my problems, especially something as serious as depression and a wedding that affects both of you. Not being good with "emotional stuff" is not a minor flaw, it's a major one, because LIFE is all "emotional stuff". Being in a relationship where you have to bear burdens like this without any help is often lonelier than not being in a relationship at all.


You might want to take a look at this thread about emotional labor. It really is mind blowing in how it changes the way you see things:

http://www.metafilter.com/151267/Wheres-My-Cut-On-Unpaid-Emotional-Labor

Re: Rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

It may be that you're right. All I know is that he's the only person who has ever stood by me and I love him, and I want it to be the right match. I really do. I guess I need to think more.

Oh my god that article. Suddenly put a situation with a male ex-friend into perspective. Blood boiling. Thanks for sharing.

Re: Rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

I get that. But it sounds like the relationship could still use a lot of work, especially in communications and supporting one another through difficult times, and those are both things that should probably be resolved before getting married. You'll both be better off or it.

The thread is a big eye opener, that's for sure.