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Comments

Re: Rant thread

[kallanda_lee]

I know this might be a confrontational question, but - do you love him?

Re: Rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, very much so. He tries really hard, it's not for want of effort on his part that we have these problems. And in day to day stuff he's definitely the rock of the household, he's the more realistic one, etc. It's just when it comes to emotional minefields, or sorting out problems that we have massive communication issues.

He'd be a good father too, and considering my own father was abusive that is something that is worth its weight in gold to me.

Re: Rant thread

[kallanda_lee]

Honestly you sound like you are a good match but the communication might be something to work on? maybe even with a counselor, if that is something you're open to and can afford.

Depression can be a hard thing to understand for those who do not experience it, but I do think he should try to grasp the notion if he's marrying someone who suffers from it.

(Also, OP, please don't have babies when you're in a depression. And when you do, be aware you're at higher risk for post-partum depression, so make sure you already have someone you trust who had your back in case that happens).

Obviously I don't know you, but from your brief replies it sounds like you're pretending everything it okay, and...well, it isn't. And it's alright to admit that. Especially to the man you love.

(P.s. sorry about you dad)

Re: Rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

Obviously I don't know you, but from your brief replies it sounds like you're pretending everything it okay, and...well, it isn't. And it's alright to admit that. Especially to the man you love.

Yeah, I think it's time to get my head out of the sand and at the very least talk to him about it (or try) and look into antidepressants.

Thank you for all your advice. Especially about kids. I very much want kids, and it hadn't really occurred to me how much my mindset might screw that up. It's definitely the impetus I need to go to my GP.

Lots to think about. Thanks again.