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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-13 03:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #3266 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3266 ⌋

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Re: Rant thread

(Anonymous) 2015-12-13 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not going to blow smoke up your butt by saying there's somebody for everyone out there. Maybe there is, but a lot of people never meet their "someone". What I will say is: DON'T SETTLE. So many people think that being in a mediocre relationship is better than being alone, but I don't think that's true. All relationships have pros and cons, it's just that the pluses outweigh the minuses if you're in the right relationship. In the wrong relationship, there are more minuses than pluses, and that will wear you down until you don't have the energy to leave a bad situation.

Re: Rant thread

(Anonymous) 2015-12-13 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for the advice, anon. I know you're right and to be honest, there's part of me wondering if I am settling. But I can't get a read on my own emotions at all at the moment it's like a void, as overdramatic as that sounds.

Thanks again.

Re: Rant thread

(Anonymous) 2015-12-13 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Not overdramatic at all, it makes sense because depression is like that. In cases like this, take care of yourself first. Forget wedding planning if it's going to be a drain on your precious emotional resources. You want a wedding and a marriage that will be a source of happiness, not anxiety. Be healthy first, and best wishes to you.

Re: Rant thread

(Anonymous) 2015-12-14 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT - The thing is... you may not feel you can get a read on them because you don't have anyone else to sound out to. Does that make any sense?

And you may feel there's no one else, but the thing is, you said you've been having suicidal thoughts. That is no small thing.