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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-12-13 03:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #3266 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3266 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-12-14 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
You do know women* can't get boners...right? Have you had sex ed? Oh god. Are you a child?


*except for like a .5% consisting of trans individuals
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-12-14 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
No, but they can experience random, uncomfortable, and persistent arousal. Likewise, there are men that have no experience with random unwanted arousal.

(Anonymous) 2015-12-14 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
That is not the same as a boner. You can't generally tell when a woman is aroused from physical cues.

A boner is a physical and visible sign of arousal. Something women can't really relate to.

"God. It was so embarrassing when I got a hard-on in front of the whole class."
Male Friend: I know, man. A stiff breeze can get me up at the worst times.
Female Friend: I too get aroused! Not that you can tell. But yeah, becoming slightly sweaty is the same that!

And because I think you may be like 12...this is a boner. SFW https://assets.rbl.ms/1547692/980x.jpg

(Anonymous) 2015-12-14 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
+1
diet_poison: (Default)

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-12-14 05:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, but other people can't SEE it. There's a really big difference there.
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-12-14 07:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe they can't see yours. That doesn't apply to every woman. Some women produce enough lubrication when aroused that it will leak through their clothes or down their legs.
diet_poison: (Default)

[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-12-14 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
That's still not really comparable to a boner.

And I have to admit, I have never heard of that actually happening. (I also have to wonder if any of these women wear pantyliners.)
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-12-14 09:29 pm (UTC)(link)
That's still not really comparable to a boner.

You can say that, but you're not providing any explanation for why it isn't.

(Anonymous) 2015-12-14 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
When someone has a boner, the penis rises up. This is very noticeable even if the person has a really small penis. I'm sure you've heard the term "pitches a tent", from the penis lifting up the front of the pants so it looks like a tent. This can be seen by most people unless the boner-haver in question covers it with their hands or an item, and even then it'll likely be noticed unless the person regularly covers their crotch with their hands or random items.

Meanwhile the most that others might notice if I get aroused is blushing, in rare cases a wet spot if I'm not careful... and then people's first assumption will be that I peed myself, not that I'm aroused.

(This explanation is done in the assumption that you're genuinely confused and not just the worst Devil's Advocate ever.)
blitzwing: ([magi] drakon)

[personal profile] blitzwing 2015-12-14 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)

(This explanation is done in the assumption that you're genuinely confused and not just the worst Devil's Advocate ever.)


Your explanation really isn't making any kind of case here. A wet spot is noticeable and embarrassing, and can be seen. So why is that you believe that women can't have empathy for the problems of men experiencing random boners?
Edited 2015-12-14 22:29 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2015-12-14 05:59 am (UTC)(link)
NA Please stop it with the name calling.