[ SECRET POST #3266 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3266 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm hating myself so much right now. I works so hard this semester for college but I still feel like it's all wasted because I'm still terrible and awful, shit.

Re: Rant thread

[(Anonymous)]

You worked hard, though! Think of all the people who wasted time and procrastinated and didn't work--they're the ones who should be feeling terrible and awful. (Some of them probably are.)

Just to work hard at something, to give it time and attention and care, is an accomplishment many people learn much too late in life. That's something that's never wasted. Devoting time and care to something is what love is all about.

I wonder if you're setting yourself up for this reaction because you believe you should do so much, no one person could accomplish it all in one semester. In this scenario, you set yourself up for failure and then beat yourself up for it. I say this because I suspect it's what I'm doing myself, and of course, it's a good way to make sure I stay anxious, depressed, and stressed.

You probably aren't any more terrible than thousands of people who are happily going about their business thinking "I am a beautiful noble person." Being a perfectionist is often presented as a virtue, but it's really, really not! Please try to be kind to your imperfect self.