[ SECRET POST #3277 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3277 ⌋

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[Leonardo DiCaprio]



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[John Barrowman]


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[Jurassic Park III, Alan/Billy]


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Comments

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

Are you entirely certain it's internalized homophobia? Sometimes when you've got a generalized self-hatred or something connected to another issue, your brain kind of seizes on a particular specific thing and decides that's what you're really hating.

I'm not trying to gaslight you or anything, just that I've been there. For a long time I thought I'd hate myself less if I got a better job, then I got a better job and it didn't fix me.

Re: Confession thread

[(Anonymous)]

No, I mean I have a lot of generalized self hatred too but I have a lot of specific sexual/romantic hang ups that I think stems from homophobia. (IE Even thinking about a women sexually or romantically makes me automatically jump to chastising myself for being predatory and objectifying and being a bad friend because they trust me and I am somehow defying that trust and other shit like that, idk.)

I thought for a while though since I was "out" I couldn't possibly have internalized anything negative so why did I feel so shitty for wanting to have sex with my girlfriend?? I am a mess of various self loathings though, so you know.

DA

[(Anonymous)]

I do the self-chastising thing too, and only when it's about girls (I'm a bi girl, no self-hatred when I feel attraction to a guy). What I figured out was that I'm using the same type of shaming on myself that feminists use on straight men. A lot of what they say really comes off as saying any attraction to a woman is bad and shameful and objectifying. I'm not saying that's the same case with you, but it is something to consider.

da

[(Anonymous)]

good points

OP

[(Anonymous)]

not really sure what you're asking me to consider really? As I am not a straight man I don't know how they feel? I don't really care about other people being attracted to women, just me, and specifically cause I'm a woman who's only attracted to other women. (Also its more than just the one example I used :/)