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⌈ Secret Post #3278 ⌋

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There's this guy I have really strong feelings for. I feel safe and comfortable and happy around him, I really want to explore him physically. He feels the same way.

I'm just scared because I won't be in his city for very long. I leave in a few months. I feel like if I had sex with him, it would not be a cute fun little memory. It would not be casual. I'm a very passionate person, and I know it would only grow more intense after having sex. I'd also need to feel a sense of security between him and I, but we've only known eachother for a couple of months, so I don't think that would happen.

I wouldn't be clingy or possessive or any of that. Actually, I'd put in some effort in making sure he didn't know how much I've fallen (assuming that would happen, based on me knowing myself) to avoid making him feel uncomfortable. He really wouldn't need to know either way. That's not the issue.

My concern lies with me and what I'm scared I'd have to deal with internally.

Idk, I feel like a kid. I'm 22, he's 21, but I feel like such a teenager over this. I wish I could just have sex with someone I like, and enjoy it harmlessly. But I always want more. I don't want to feel like just another lay, not that I can imagine him treating me that way.

Agh, I make things too complicated for myself.

Even if it's only for a few months, I'd say be okay with your feelings, and share them with him. You're going to go in a relationship, not necessarily a romantic one but at least a sexual one, while withholding your real feelings and fears, and in the end I feel like it's definitely going to turn your relationship into a bitter memory.

Let me tell you a story.

I'm 21 and I'm in London as a student studying abroad for ONE semester. I meet a local man 15 years older than me. He's fantastic. He's kinky and smart and sweet and sexy and we adore each other right off the bat.

But we're star crossed. My time in England has an end date so we know it can't last. We decide that we're not going to have a relationship but we're still going to see each other anyway.

We fall in love anyway. I end up losing my virginity to him. I end up wishing I hadn't waited so damn long to do it because it wasted time we could've spent making love.

I cut it off when I go back to the US because that is the sensible thing to do. After all long distance doesn't work, right? There's no way we could make it last right? So why try right?

When we finally speak to each other again more than five years later, we both agree, we could have been something real even with the distance. But he's made a commitment to someone else in the time I was gone and I'm not a homewrecker.

But it's been seven years and I haven't fallen in love since.

Not taking the chance, trying to take it seriously is, to date, one of the biggest mistakes of my life.

Just something to think about.

Does he feel the same way? What if he actually falls in love with you during this time and doesn't want to break it off?

Just be open and honest with yourself and him.

(also use protection everytime)

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