[ SECRET POST #3280 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3280 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Am I being dumb for being bothered by this?

[(Anonymous)]

Aaaaand you've lost sympathy from me.

She's allowed to do as she pleases. That she's not "mature" enough for your tastes shouldn't factor into whether she's rude or not. She's mature enough to not give a fuck if you think she's "mature", or that other people might judge her for ~not growing up~ apparently.

DA

[(Anonymous)]

Abloobloobloobloo

If she's calling someone "immature' for not having sex or as much sex it's not really unfair to look at how 'mature' she is.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Except that liking parties and sex and stuff like that has zero bearing on how mature someone is, and instead bringing that up reeks of "I'm better than her because I have ADULT hobbies!!!!"

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

The sex and partying comment was agreeing with the above anon that she sounds like their friend in that she's all about the sex and partying, not that that's what makes her immature. The fact that she judges people for being different than her is what makes her immature (and seeing penis/oral sex references in totally unrelated things and giggling over it like a middle schooler).

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

Except read what OP is saying. Apparently, yes, this kind of lifestyle makes er immature.

Re: DA

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Er, I am the OP. Like I said, being so judgy about stuff that doesn't affect her at all is what makes her immature. The reason I mentioned the sex and partying is because the anon I replied to mentioned a friend of theirs that thought life was all about sex and partying, and that's how she is...I was just agreeing that it sounded like they were similar, not that was what made her immature. Maybe I should've worded it differently, but what I said in a different comment is what I'm referring to when I say she's immature:

"I think in general people need to mind their own business a lot more than they do when it comes to everyone else's relationships/sex life. It's kind of annoying because she claims to be soooo open-minded but..."omg dating only 4 people is so weird!" and "virgins, eww!" doesn't exactly fit into that mindset. I think in her case it's probably just immaturity, though, so hopefully she'll get over it eventually."

The fact that she cares so much about other people's relationships/sex lives when they have nothing to do with her is what's immature to me.