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⌈ Secret Post #3290 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

feminism is killing empathy for men?

more like "I feel guilty but I don't wanna feel guilty, I'm a good guy and good guys aren't supposed to feel like this PLEASE ARGGGHH MAKE IT STOP"

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

If it's a pathological and unfounded feeling of guilt, then it's a problem that we should have empathy for.

And I think that is - at least a possibility.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

It doesn't sound unfounded to me. Read the bits about him (definitly him btw) being creepy.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

Which bits?

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

THATS IT!

That's exactly why I hate OP. It's classic nice-guy-ism.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

I really don't read it that way at all. Could you explain?

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

Not really. I've been trying to figure out why OP bugs me, unsuccessfully, and it's just because he gives off major nice guy vibes.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

I mean, fair enough, I just really don't get that vibe and I'm curious where it's coming from.

The vibe that I get is a guy who has serious, serious issues with self-esteem and self-image, and this is an expression of that. Where he conceptualizes himself as harmful and toxic on a basic, fundamental level. Which isn't really a nice guy thing. A nice guy thinks that he's entitled to pleasant interactions on account of he's so nice and polite. In contrast, this guy is worried that people are going to realize his basic awfulness and punish him for it.

Now the particular expression of it is definitely a gendered thing, but I just don't see it as a nice guy thing.

Re: Can we have a gender general thread?

[(Anonymous)]

Like, to be more specific, maybe: a nice guy is mad because he can't fuck. This guy thinks that his desire to fuck fundamentally makes him bad and toxic.

But again that's just my reading.