[ SECRET POST #3297 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3297 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Unfortunately for trans women especially the chaser versus genuinely nice people who happen to be attracted to trans women is pretty dismal at times, mostly because chasers flood the market. The heavy history of trans women as sex objects for "curious" men has made a lot of trans women ultra aware of their surroundings in terms of dating people, and they're often on the lookout for chaserish behaviour. Any notions of wanting to be on the "down low" (i.e. "I'm ashamed to be seen with a trans woman in public"), constant bugging for sexual things that they're not willing to provide, etc, all rings the chaser alarms.

As for your boyfriend...I mean, that really depends on you and him. :) Does he treat you like a person? Does he respect your sexual boundaries if you happen to have any? My FWB and I definitely have little conversations like this if we're snuggling together and feeling a bit randy, and the sexualizaton of one another's bodies definitely goes both ways (in fact I'd venture to say she's more hot under the collar for "boys with bonus holes" than anything I've ever said! :P), but that's because we've discussed this together before. As long as your BF is treating you like more than his personal sex object and respects you as a person, that's totally fine! I'll be the first person to say that I think my FWB is a really attractive woman, and I love her body, but I also respect that she's an individual person who isn't my personal fetish dispensary. And she gives that same respect back. So it's all good!