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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-13 06:37 pm

[ SECRET POST #3297 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3297 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-14 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
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As a non-op trans man...how exactly is she supposed to feel about us? I currently have a trans feminine FWB who feels okay with engaging me sexually in that manner, in the same vein I feel okay with engaging her sexually in that manner. (But she also excludes cis men for certain sexual positions, both out of personal preference and as a way to weed out the "most likely a chaser" types.) Trans men have many of the same boundaries that trans women do, and for trans people who date other trans people, that's something they work out between individuals.

Trans men don't have the same history as cis men do of objectifying and sexualizing trans women, and for many trans women who enjoy male companionship, that is more than enough. And some include trans men in that equation, usually because they don't feel comfortable topping masculine people period. Both of these things are valid and okay.