[ SECRET POST #3300 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3300 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

You don't have to agree that feeling upset about a favorite author's death is logical, but there is really no need to be dismissive and dickish about it.

[solticisekf]

I'm serious, looking up the author's family might cheer OP up. If no one died we'll be like Tolkien's elfs - very few births and long lifespans. 'Survived by' is the line that makes death announcments bearable.

[(Anonymous)]

If you truly wanted to make a sincere suggestion to cheer OP up, you would've left off the "You've never even met her" and the rather condescending "Next thing you'll look up mortality statistics all around the world to grief for everybody". That's what makes your comment sound mean spirited.

When someone's grieving for a loss, why would you butt in and try to rationalize them out of their sadness? How is that a polite or compassionate thing to do? I don't understand this community at all sometimes.

[solticisekf]

I was discussing death with my grandma today when I called to give her my condolences and ask her how she was feeling because of her friend's death. I guess I'm feeling philosophical about all this. Anyway, I hope OP will get other replies that will help them.

[(Anonymous)]

Being philosophical is not the same thing as suggesting that people shouldn't feel what they feel in response to death, or that their grief is absurd to you. That's just trying to sugarcoat one's insensitivity.

Now I don't think being genuinely philosophical about death is a bad thing, but it's not something you try to impose on other people when they're not ready. Let people feel sad about someone dying if they want to, ffs.