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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-16 03:22 pm

[ SECRET POST #3300 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3300 ⌋

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Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2016-01-17 10:25 am (UTC)(link)
Cheaters gonna cheat, nonny. You keep dating one and making excuses for why you need to stay with him despite his cheating and the fact that he wants to hide your relationship, it's going to blow up in your face sooner or later. You sticking around despite his shitty behavior has taught him that he doesn't need to curb that shitty behavior whatsoever. Why bother? As history shows, you'll put up with it, there's no need for him to change.

Let me introduce you to something called "the sunk cost fallacy":

http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/how-the-sunk-cost-fallacy-makes-you-act-stupid.html

When you stay in a bad relationship because you've already put so much work in, you're just flushing your time and emotional resources down the toilet. There will be no return, no blue ribbon for being a long suffering partner. Get out while you can, because this relationship has likely cost you too much already. Your future relationships will be burdened with the jealousy and paranoia baggage you're picking up thanks to the loser you're dating now. Save yourself, nonny.