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⌈ Secret Post #3304 ⌋

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[Law & Order SVU]

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[Leonardo DiCaprio]

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(Penny Dreadful: Caliban/John Clare)

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[Star Wars]

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[Kumail Nanjiani, The X-Files]

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[Shin Megami Tensei X Fire Emblem]

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[Love Live!]

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[Severus Snape and the Marauders]

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[Sherlock Holmes]

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[Making a Murderer, Dean Strang and Jerry Buting]

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[Colony]

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I've seen established relationships come to a screeching halt when one partner wanted out and the other was completely blindsided. However, the one wanting to bail did not claim it was a sudden thing, just made a good performance of hiding the change in feelings and/or the falling in love with someone else. He may have been falling out of love with you for a while but just didn't realize it until recently (I mean, has he ever been in love with anyone before you or been in a serious relationship before? Would he have recognized what his changing feelings meant?) or may be he's not being completely honest.

In any case, you should tell him that if he's serious about not being in love with you, then you are going to need some time and he needs to back off on trying to be buddies. Put some space between the two of you and then you can try to get back on your feet and he can figure out if he really feels the way he says he does. Maybe he'll change his mind, but don't hang everything on that hope. Give yourself some time to process and grieve and then live your life.

[ SECRET POST #3304 ]

Re: He fell out of love with me