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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-20 05:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #3304 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3304 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Law & Order SVU]


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03.
[Leonardo DiCaprio]


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04.
(Penny Dreadful: Caliban/John Clare)


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05.
[Star Wars]


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06.
[Kumail Nanjiani, The X-Files]


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07.
[Shin Megami Tensei X Fire Emblem]


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08.
[Love Live!]


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09.
[Severus Snape and the Marauders]


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10.
[Sherlock Holmes]


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11.
[Making a Murderer, Dean Strang and Jerry Buting]


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12.
[Colony]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 027 secrets from Secret Submission Post #472.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: He fell out of love with me

(Anonymous) 2016-01-21 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
You're not selfish. He dropped a bomb on you and it's a doozy.

It's entirely possible he realized earlier what his true feelings were, but since a certain kind of behavior is expected in a romantic relationship, he may just have been going through the motions and didn't realize it. It's possible he felt bad about what he felt and showered you with affection in order to compensate.

You did nothing wrong. You are 100% lovable. It stings like a bitch right now, I know. If it's too much to be in his presence right now, even as a friend, don't feel guilty about disappearing from his life and focusing on other things that don't involve him. Just... don't stop living your life. Use this time to find out what you're awesome at, to grow as a person. Don't live your life based on the hope that he'll come back to you.

This may not be something you want to hear, but ultimately, this may be good for both of you. When the dust settles, you may realize that though he may not feel for you the way you do for him, the way you want him to, now you are free to find someone who does.