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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-23 03:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #3307 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3307 ⌋

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Re: 'Harmful' Beliefs

(Anonymous) 2016-01-24 12:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I actually had someone who felt pretty bad about being mean to me apologize, but I didn't think that they were all that bad about it in the first place. It was more like, "Oh, didn't realize you thought you were all that mean to me in the first place. No hard feelings, I guess." But they more went along with other people being mean than starting stuff on their own, dunno what your case is like.

I mean, it varies person to person, but I personally don't hold on grudges much, so I don't really think about that I was bullied pretty bad until it's brought up and even then it's more like "oh yeah that happened" than feeling sad or upset about it. I appreciated the effort and it's nice to know that they felt bad about it, but you get the feeling it's more about them resolving their own guilt than it ever was about you, especially if it's been awhile.

Might be best just to write a letter about how you feel and don't send it.