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[(Anonymous)]

asian women tend to have a lot less body diversity than western women in general, though. my family hosted a few chinese exchange students when i was in high school and one of them was extremely tall (about 5'9") by chinese standards... she was so happy that she could buy jeans here that fit her because she said it was impossible to get ones that were long enough back home in china. they just didn't make jeans for tall women there because there were so few of them.

[(Anonymous)]

What women can buy in stores is not an accurate reflection of body sizes of the population, even in the States where there are a number of tall and overweight women, you can not always find those sizes in stores (I am tall and I often have to buy online because most stores will only put their tall section on the internet.)

They are still ignoring a large population of women when they only have one go to body type for characters. Something being made in Japan is not an excuse.

[(Anonymous)]

maybe it's a regional thing, because i'm a fat girl and i can go into pretty much any department store and find my size with no issues. anyway, she herself said she was abnormally tall compared to most chinese girls, so i'm going to take her word on that since i've never been to china myself. i don't see why she would lie about something like that.

i guess i just don't really see why it matters. fiction has always been about the ideal, and i know that my body type isn't considered the attractive ideal. it doesn't particularly bother me because, well, it's fiction, not reality. i mean if we really want to be realistic, there shouldn't be so many conventionally attractive characters on tv and in games as well because most people you encounter day-to-day aren't drop-dead gorgeous like most actors.

[(Anonymous)]

Compared to most still doesn't mean she's the ONLY person of that height though, or that there aren't women taller then her or more overweight or less overweight. One body type can't possibly represent a whole population no matter what country you look at.

And do you ever wonder *why* your bodytype is not considered the attractive ideal? We aren't all born thinking that a certain body type is best, it's something we learn as we take from the environment around us and that includes things like video games. That's why body diversity in media is important, because it leaves more room for people to have all sorts of fantasies rather then having the same boring fantasy type over and over again.

[(Anonymous)]

it's not the attractive ideal because it isn't healthy? i need to lose some weight and get my blood pressure down for the sake of my own health so i'm not at risk for heart problems later on. but even if and when i do, i still won't be considered the "attractive ideal" because i'm rather plain-looking, and i'm fine with that. i'm comfortable with myself, ideal or not.

i fully admit to being shallow. i want to look at pretty people in my media. if i wanted to look at average-looking people, i'd go to the mall.

[(Anonymous)]

It's fine if you're shallow what I'm questioning is why you think only *one* type of person should define beauty. It's actually extremely unhealthy for most people's mental states (there have been studies to suggest as such) and not everyone wants just one type of person in their media.

And health is not really the best definer of what is beautiful, because people can be extremely unhealthy and still be considered conventionally attractive. Hollywood is notorious for this because many men and women in the industry have eating disorders and drug habits.

I'm not proposing "attractive" people be taken away, just that we expand what we consider attractive and give people who want to see other types of people options. I think if you had grown up in a world where different types of beauty was appreciated, you might feel differently about yourself then you do.

[(Anonymous)]

i think you misunderstand me. i feel just fine about myself because i'm not personally hung up on physical beauty and whether or not i'm considered conventionally attractive. the fact is, every society in every corner of the world has their own standards of beauty and certain traits that are held up above others. what those traits are may vary, but there is always going to be a particular group of people who are considered to be more beautiful than everyone else for whatever reason. it's just human nature and it's not going to change.

what would be more productive would be working on getting people to stop caring so much about whether or not they fit societal standards of physical beauty because it IS such a shallow thing. how pretty you are has no bearing on what kind of person you are or what you're capable of accomplishing.

[(Anonymous)]

Nothing of what you're saying is an argument against body diversity or it's importance though. I agree that we put too much emphasis on physical beauty, but if we didn't don't you think people would be more inclined to put in a more diverse roster of characters in their media? If people cared about beauty less, then they wouldn't feel the need to always have the conventionally attractive dominate every aspect of entertainment.

Whatever your opinion on what really matters in a person, what we do *now* is extremely harmful to people. Whether the definition of beauty needs to be expanded or people need to start caring about it less, either way the best way to accomplish that is to allow for more diversity.

[bio_obscura]

No only that, having only one beauty ideal to look at all the time is fucking boring. Especially when you get into editing and photoshop where they're actually trying to erase all of a person's uniqueness so they look the same as every other conventionally pretty character/celebrity/figure.

[(Anonymous)]

+1000000

[bio_obscura]

Even "a lot less body diversity than western women" is still a fuck ton of body diversity, certainly more than is depicted in Asian media (or any media, which, again, is the point).