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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-05 07:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #3320 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3320 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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(Rick and Morty)


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03. http://i.imgur.com/u0ymbUk.gifv
[moving gif]


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05.
[Steven Universe]


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06.
[Hanna Barbera Comics Reboot]


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08.
[The Flash]


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[Renaud]


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[The Shannara Chronicles]


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11. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]





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12. [WARNING for incest / underage]






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13. [WARNING for rape]



[Okane Ga Nai]


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14. [WARNING for rape]



[Hockey RPF]


















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(Anonymous) 2016-02-06 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt but no, people aren't entitled to forgiveness. However, in this situation, it's not about that person really, it's about you and what kind of person you are. You can scream about what's fair and who deserves what and what they don't deserve. But that kind of shows your true colors, too. Forgive and let an old, sad person die in peace, and you assert your own strength of character.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-06 01:47 am (UTC)(link)
da

idk man, it still sounds kind of douchey to say that someone is a bad person for not forgiving a person who neglected and then abandoned them for years and years and then comes back once they're at death's door. it would be nice and all if they chose to forgive the person who did that to them but it seems like a dick move to criticize them if they don't.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-06 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
Depends. Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean reconciling and letting the person screw you over once more. For some, it just means letting go of the past.

No one should ever be forced to reconcile with a person who hurt them badly, nor does anyone have the right to guilt them into doing so.
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[personal profile] blitzwing 2016-02-06 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
This. It's a way of letting go of what was done to you and a way of showing that that person is no longer controlling your life by what they did to you. When you can forgive, it means you've moved past it.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-06 06:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Definitely. It's perfectly consistent to tell a person "I forgive you" and then cut him or her out of your life. You have a right to protect yourself, and that includes removing yourself from the presence of people who have hurt you severely or repeatedly. Forgiveness doesn't mean no consequences.