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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-10 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3325 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3325 ⌋

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chardmonster: (Default)

[personal profile] chardmonster 2016-02-11 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Nah, there are a lot of dudes who think not being entirely horrible makes them wonderful.

I trust there's more to this story than you can fit into a small square.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
Really? There are guys out there going, "I find her attractive even though she was not naked, GIVE ME A MEDAL!!!!"

Do you think men only find women attractive after they see them naked? That until they see tits, women are all icky? Are you actually a 6 year old afraid of cooties? You do know many (if not most of men, like women) date a while and are sexually attracted to women before they flash their tits and pussy right?

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Sure, many men are attracted to women not just because of their looks, but because of their personalities. Aaaaaaaand there are quite a few men who are more shallow, just as there are quite a few women who are more shallow, because there are quite a few people who are shallow, period.

You seem pretty defensive for some reason.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
I am defensive because this is such a stupid thing to say with literally no proof than the fact that OP can apparently read men's minds. Also, there are at least 2 other anons in this thread.
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[personal profile] chardmonster 2016-02-11 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
You're reading a lot into this secret.

Really? There are guys out there going, "I find her attractive even though she was not naked, GIVE ME A MEDAL!!!!"

Not in so many words, but yeah. You've never seen someone talking about how they like some character for their PERSONALITY and it's so much BETTER than just liking them for their boobs, look how enlightened they are? They're nice guys, really! But for some reason they think this is unusual and laudible, hmm.
Edited 2016-02-11 00:16 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
So those men are basically every woman on Tumblr who totally ships the two hot white guys because of their personality/fighting oppression against gay people/whatever fucking essay they write on the TRUE reason behind slash and *not* because they like seeing two hot, white dicks rub against one another.

So, men are just like women and want to get "medals" for stuff they think will make them and their interests more accepted.

Shocking.
chardmonster: (Default)

[personal profile] chardmonster 2016-02-11 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, actually.

But see, the men expect to get laid for it. They expect female appreciation for what they like. That's what makes them more of a bother. The tumblr women are just yelling about their ships into the void/at other shippers. They don't expect someone to give them a medal, they're slapping a medal on their own chest and yelling at you for not having one of your own.
Edited 2016-02-11 00:32 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Where are these men? Show them to me or stop talking out your ass. Like, I get that you hate men right now but you have to actually back up your claims of this happening with more than anecdotal "men are evil" rhetoric.

Like....give me 10 examples of this happening. Let's do this.
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[personal profile] chardmonster 2016-02-11 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Haha, no. I'm not writing a essay for you on a fucking message board.

with more than anecdotal "men are evil" rhetoric.

Jesus Christ if you think me saying some male dorks are annoying is "men is evil" rhetoric you're a fucking dimwit

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
... you need CITED PROOF that crappy dudes exist? Wow, I want your luck.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
Haha right?

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 05:24 am (UTC)(link)
Oh God, you sound so, so, so ANGRY about this. Dude, it happens. There are a ton of shitty fucking guys who take a dump in fandom just like this. IT HAPPENS. Stop trying to derail the conversation by demanding receipts. Women talk about this shit all the time. Listen to them, learn, and stop throwing a tantrum.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 12:23 am (UTC)(link)
This secret is reading a lot into men who find her attractive. Between the two things reaching, pretty sure it's the secret itself and not ayrt.
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[personal profile] chardmonster 2016-02-11 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
I totally buy that there are guys doing it, though. That's why I want OP to provide an example.

This sort of shit was all over Bioware forums for example.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-02-11 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
wow you're really angry about...I'm not even sure.

you might want to take a couple steps back

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, yes. Confronted with people you disagree with: Bring out the condescending life advice. A tried and true method to shut people down.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2016-02-11 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I am not even remotely involved in Star Wars fandom so I don't have a horse in this race...so no.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
but i not in control of your goddamn life...

jez.... came back when you have some decency on your own apathy.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-12 07:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah yes. Assert that this is about your, I hesitate to call it, argument, and not about the fact that you are losing your shit over nothing. A tried and true method to avoid self examination.