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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-10 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3325 ]


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(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
But - again, not to be a pedant here, but I think it's a really important point - that's not a difference between male sexuality and female sexuality qua sexuality. It's a difference in the way that those sexualities are expressed, which is a function of socialization.

And the reason I think that distinction is important is because it impinges on the question of whether it's possible to have a male sexuality which isn't implicated in those things. Which I think is something that more or less all of us would be interested in existing.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2016-02-11 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
I completely agree with that. It is socialization, not inherent. But it is a factor in how people are going to react to someone's expression of their sexual attraction. And the way men often express their sexual desire makes me more uncomfortable than the way woman do it most often.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-11 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
Sure, I haven't a word of argument with that. i'm just saying the way it's talked about matters.