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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-02-18 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3333 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3333 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[iCarly]


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[Sublunary: --enter the moonlight--]


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[Tokusatsu (Kamen Rider, Super Sentai, Ultraman)]


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[Harry Potter + Pokemon, Wonder Woman, Anne of Green Gables, Looney Tunes]


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[Kyuuketsuki Hime Miyu]


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[Usagi Drop]


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[Ranma 1/2]
















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[personal profile] scrubber 2016-02-18 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
This is also one of my most hated tropes but you're shouting into the void OP. People are only interested in telling you "well some people can survive horrifically traumatic events JUST FINE" when you mention this, as if that actually makes sense.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-19 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
Well, it does make sense. I know jack-all about this show, but it makes a lot of sense. Not everyone is traumatized in the same way, if at all. I've a friend who was mugged at knife point on the way to an anime convention- fairly traumatic, but she doesn't have any issue with cities, dark alley ways or strangers. And she's not some mentally strong never-bothered type. She just got past it.

I was molested by my mother's boyfriend when I was eight. I am not sexually traumatized. It hurt, I think about it sometimes, but I am no worse for wear. Sincerely. While other things really got to me- a very mild car crash when I was around the same age has had me forever petrified of being in vehicles. Never been able to shake it.

These are anecdotal YMMV scenarios- so is anything you have experienced that contradicts what I've said. There's no such thing as a definitively traumatizing event. Some things have a bigger chance of impacting a child (or otherwise) in such a way that it shapes them negatively, but that's not an absolute.

(Anonymous) 2016-02-19 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, trauma in general is a very individulized thing. I have one friend who was in a really serious car accident (her car was completely totaled; it was a miracle she escaped without any serious injuries) and yet she was right back driving again as soon as she got out of the hospital without any sort of notable mental effects. Meanwhile, I have another friend who was in a minor fender bender and was too nervous to drive at all for a couple of months after it happened. It depends 100% on the person and how they as an individual cope with things.